Couples in love will feel happy. Psychologists believe that this is because there are a series of physiological effects in love, which is what girlfriends call "feelings." Unfortunately, this feeling cannot last forever. , so many couples who have passed the love period will break up because they have no feelings. How to recover in this case?
What is the "feeling" in love
The so-called feeling is dopamine produced by the brain during love. It can suppress negative emotions such as anxiety and make people indulge in feelings of happiness and warmth. But as the time the two spend together increases, the amount of dopamine secreted by the brain begins to decrease, and the other person's shortcomings are revealed one by one, and this "feeling" in love will become increasingly exhausted.
Therefore, many couples begin to doubt their love, think about whether they no longer love each other, and break up because they have no feelings. So from this point of view, all love will not have a good result, so this kind of love feeling can be recovered. When you get the feeling back, you can restore your girlfriend very well!
How to make feelings to win back your girlfriend
People often like to express their emotions and feelings through words and actions. In fact, language Emotions and feelings are also reflected back to people as actions. Therefore, we can stimulate emotions through physical contact, such as holding hands, kissing, etc., which can also quickly affect the secretion of hormones such as dopamine and endorphins in the brain, creating "feelings"
It is an eternal truth that girls all like sweet words. Therefore, if boys often praise their girlfriends in daily life, they can promote the development of feelings and create a wonderful "feeling".
Girls think that if they don’t feel in love, they will just break up. This situation is mostly caused by the boyfriend’s lack of strength. Even if If you don't feel it, imagine yourself as Takeshi Kaneshiro, will she still talk about breaking up? This is because in her mind at this time, her evaluation score of you is too low or she has a negative judgment.
Boys should also notice at this stage what shortcomings they have that their girlfriends don’t like, and correct them. When your girlfriend sees that your advantages have increased and your shortcomings have decreased, she will be more interested in them. Your sense of infatuation and attachment will be significantly increased, and it will also make your relationship more "feeling"!
