Men think that when they encounter conflicts or problems, they just need to be reasonable and talk things over, but wives often won’t give you a chance to talk. Instead, they start to have a cold war with you. Even if you take the initiative to go to her and talk things over, she will ignore you. , which brings the situation to a deadlock. What should I do if my wife is cold-blooded and ignored?
1. Take the initiative to cling to her
When your wife is cold and ignoring you, cling to her yourself and ask her what happened. My wife is always like this. Sometimes, even if she is being unreasonable, she will admit her mistake to you for the sake of face. Instead, she will keep a cold war with you and ignore you. This is because she wants to inspire you to admit your mistake and reconcile. At this time, as a husband, you can only stick to her and coax her. After coaxing her, you can reconcile. At this time, your wife may even apologize to you. In fact, most women are like this. As a man, you must learn to give her a step down, and if you love her, you shouldn't feel that apologizing is anything.
2. Point out your mistakes and problems
When your wife is in a cold war with you and ignores you, Calm down first, analyze the whole thing, and carefully pick out what is wrong with you. The more the better, and the more thorough the better. Because the more you do this, the easier it will be for your wife to forgive you, and the easier it will be for you to reconcile.
Also, don’t be in a hurry to say where you feel wronged! Otherwise, all your previous efforts will be in vain, because your wife will feel that you are talking bad about her, and then she will feel wronged and start to feel unhappy again. Of course, conflicts between husband and wife are definitely not one person’s problem, and you are not asked to shoulder everything alone. After she calms down and is willing to communicate with you and talks normally, you can point out your grievances bit by bit. In short, control your emotions and don't trigger a second cold war.
3. Discuss the problem in another way
There is no right or wrong in relationships, and who is right and who is wrong It doesn't matter. Maybe your wife knows that she was wrong, but during the conflict, some of your actions made her feel angry and sad. "Some of your actions" refers to the attitude problems that women often say. Of course, your wife may be different and have different inverse scales.
When your wife is being cold-blooded and ignoring others, you can discuss the problem in another way. The right or wrong of things is not so important in the relationship (except for dignity and major issues, which will probably not be involved in normal times). It is like buying strawberries. , your wife said that the big ones are delicious, and you said that the small ones are more flavorful. Maybe you are both right, but if you said, it was me who was wrong, and then I bought big strawberries. I think your wife might take the initiative to buy you some strawberries next time. The reason for bowing your head and admitting your mistake is that you cherish this relationship more and you love her more. Similarly, your wife will love you more.
What should I do if my wife is cold and ignoring others? The most important thing is to make her willing to talk to you and listen to what you have to say, otherwise it will be in vain no matter how much you say or do.
