I feel that if a relationship involves financial issues, it seems that everything will go bad. For example, if a woman always asks for money from a man, then the man will wonder if the woman treats her as a cash machine; if a woman does not spend money from a man and feels that she is cheating on him, then she does not love her. Is this really how men behave? Let’s analyze what it means for women not to spend money from men.
1. Before a relationship is confirmed
Before a man and a woman confirm a relationship, a woman will be particularly happy if a man spends too much money on the man she likes. Women will feel that he spends too much money on him. When a man expresses his love, the more the man gives, the more the woman feels that the man loves her. At the same time, the woman will repay the man with her feelings and buy him gifts. This is a virtuous circle.
On the contrary, if a woman doesn’t like a man, then the woman will be very afraid of spending the man’s money and being afraid of owing the man. There is no way to repay it. Even if a woman spends your money, she will slowly calculate how much you have spent because she wants to pay it back. Moreover, if a man spends more, a woman will feel more pressure, because she is afraid that she will not be able to pay back the money, and will eventually be forced to stay together under pressure, so a woman will be very taboo about spending money from a man she does not like.
Of course, the women we are talking about above are all well-educated women. They will not spend men’s money when going out with men. On the one hand, they look too low, and on the other hand, they look like their families are very poor. They eat whatever they want. You have to take advantage of men for every meal. Of course, nowadays, many green tea companies ask men to pay for dinner wherever they go, just to take advantage of it. They also call it: "When a man and a woman go out to eat, it is the man's turn to treat." So you should be glad you didn't meet a green tea bitch.
2. After confirming the relationship
It is said that a woman’s interest is to buy, buy and buy, and if a woman is with a man, if she really loves each other, she will not mind spending the man’s money. Money, and I don’t mind spending my own money to buy gifts for men. If a man meets a woman who really likes you and makes her your girlfriend, don't worry that she doesn't like spending your money. It's a woman's nature to love spending money. I'm afraid you won't be able to bear it and the money will make you want to cry. But girls who don't love you but want to spend your money must be careful.
There is also a kind of woman who sees that a man's conditions are relatively superior, so she likes to test the man with lustful tricks. For example, when a man wants to spend money for her, she will pretend to refuse. After one or two times, the man will feel embarrassed and feel sorry for not spending money for his woman, so he buys the woman a very expensive gift all at once, or gives it to the woman all at once. Spending a lot of money, such a woman doesn't want to spend a man's money, but wants to spend more of a man's money.
Another possibility for women not to spend men’s money is that men’s economic conditions are not very good, and women’s conditions are slightly better. Women will try their best to avoid spending men’s money, but they will also take some care.Take care of a man's self-esteem and accept his gifts. In this case, it can only be said that this woman loves this man so much that she will take into account these small details.