In many people’s minds, cheating seems to only happen to men. But the fact is that cheating does not differentiate between genders, so today we are going to discuss which one you are more unwilling to accept, mental cheating or physical cheating!
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Actually, I believe more people want to say, I am not willing to accept whether it is mental or physical cheating, so why do I have to choose one?
Actually, that’s right. It’s not that I have to choose one between the two, but reality keeps repeating such things, so only when you look at this matter rationally can you find a better solution. method. So don’t shut yourself away when cheating comes up.
First, let’s take a look at what is mental infidelity and what is physical infidelity.
Mental cheating: In fact, I agree with the saying "Spiritual cheating is just attempted physical cheating."
Physical cheating: Having sex with someone else when you already have a partner/lover Things only those who love do.
So which one of these two types of cheating are you more unwilling to accept?
A: Can’t stand physical cheating, it feels so dirty;
B: Physical cheating The raw rice of cheating has become cooked rice, and it seems that spiritual cheating can be turned back;
C: I can’t stand it, but I can’t stand mental cheating. If she cheats mentally, she will definitely not love me anymore;< /p>
D: This question is like whether I am willing to accept being slapped on the left cheek or the right cheek. I will not accept either one;
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"Spiritual cheating is the saddest thing. , it means you don’t love me anymore, there is no love anymore. The dirty body can be cleaned, but mentally if he has someone else in his heart, that person is the cinnabar mole in his heart, the bright moonlight in his heart, what kind of thing? Can bleach wash away the bright moonlight and remove cinnabar moles?"
In the end, in fact, there are many spiritual derailments in real life, which we have not discovered, because it stops at the spirit, and we see it the most The most important thing is physical cheating, and for me personally, I can't accept mental cheating even more than physical cheating. Of course, the best option is to avoid cheating and everyone will be happy. So how to prevent it? In the same way, if you find that something is wrong, you can take measures to nip it in the bud.
1. I often find excuses not to go home. Even if I go home, I would rather be alone. When encountering these situations, don’t think that it is a dull marriage. Maybe there is a deep crisis hidden behind this dullness?
2. Inexplicable boredom and rejectionThousands of miles away. The person who cheats will definitely have a romantic partner in his heart. This person may be a secret love, or it may just be an ambiguous situation. However, the person who cheats will often focus on other people. .
3. Making love has become a routine, and it is fun to rely on imagination. The party with mental cheating often has no interest in sexual intercourse between husband and wife. Even if it is sometimes out of physiological needs, it is routine and often resolved quickly.
4. Compare the other person with others and see how she doesn’t like it. You have to blame the other party for every little thing. When quarreling, they will even deliberately find fault with each other, and always compare the other party with others, overtly or covertly. The more they compare, the less interesting it becomes.
Finally, I still want to say that we should treat cheating rationally. Whether you choose to forgive or break up, I respect your choice. Remember! Loving yourself is the most important thing.
