Since ancient times, we have always emphasized the importance of being well-matched, and many people use this as a criterion to find a partner. But sometimes love can't be stopped even if it's love, and they don't even consider whether they are a good match. In the end, the two people persuaded their parents to be together. After that, will a marriage that is not a good match last long? Let’s analyze the importance of being a good match for everyone.
1. The rich look down on the poor
If a rich girl falls in love with a poor boy, there is nothing wrong with it; but if a poor boy stays with a rich girl, he will definitely be attracted by the rich girl. Parents and relatives look down upon and look down upon them; many times, they are humiliated; the family members of rich girls will ask poor boys what they can do to raise their daughters, and how they can let their daughters live the life of a wealthy lady; if If a girl from a rich family also has older brothers, younger brothers, older sisters and younger sisters, she will look down on the poor boy even more. This is actually the difference between the rich and the poor, and it is a very real problem. It can be said that in the sea of ??people, the poor are the most vulnerable. Among the young men who try to climb up to the rich girls, none of them can hold their head high in the sea of ??people; they all endure humiliation and live a humble life.
2. The poor side is easily ignored
If the rich girl and the poor boy become a family , in-laws need to communicate with each other; but a poor family and a rich family may not speak the same language and have different living habits; the parents of a poor boy will definitely be ignored in front of the rich woman’s family; there are many When they are young, they may be treated as slaves; the parents of a poor boy, because of the poor boy's marriage, live in such a miserable and humiliating way, which is quite painful for a man; Letting your parents live such a miserable life because of you is the greatest unfilial piety in life. Therefore, poor boys should not strive for high things, let alone abandon their parents.
3. The rich person is used to living a good life and cannot bear the hardships
If a rich girl is in love, she is quite naive; in her heart, she only cares about love Whether you are in love or not, you have never thought about what life after marriage will be like? If a rich girl falls out with her parents because of a poor boy, then the rich girl will accompany the poor boy to suffer the hardships and suffer the sins of the world. At the beginning, it may feel strange, but as each day passes, there is no hope. , and cannot see the future, then you will definitely not be able to bear it; in the end, you will have conflicts and problems with the poor boy; if two people are together, they will not be happy, and they will not live happily! It's so different from the feeling when you're in love.
4. The poor will not be able to hold their heads high
There are many poor boys who marry rich girls. , will get support from the parents of rich girls; but for a poor boy, you mustIt is clear that the parents of rich girls must have opinions about you, because in their eyes, they must think that you are greedy for their family's money. Therefore, giving you support is like giving alms to a beggar. This is right. A deeper insult from you satirizes your incompetence, your inability to even support your own woman; so you take other people's soft hands and eat their short mouths; in the future, in front of the rich girl's family, You have to be humble; you don't even dare to say a word, you don't even dare to get angry, it's very humble.
5. Improper marriage will create estrangement and contradictions
Only when everyone is in a well-matched marriage can they be happy together; in a mismatched marriage, when two people are together, will they be There will be a lot of estrangements and conflicts; therefore, if a poor boy marries a rich girl, the two families will not live happily, nor will they really live like a family; sometimes, a rich man may say a word The parents of a poor boy will have a dying heart; for example, a rich girl's family will take out a bottle of wine worth tens of thousands of yuan and tell the parents of a poor boy that you have never been thirsty for a bar like this in your life! Although this is a truth, it is so sarcastic; the parents of poor boys will feel special pain in their hearts; therefore, poor boys must not be superior to rich girls, and men must live a good life. Be calm, don't live a life of humility.
Therefore, there is still a certain reason why the well-matched match continues to this day. I hope everyone will refer to it when looking for a partner.
