Language is really a magical thing. It can not only make people feel love, but also make love disappear. Today, the editor brings "What are the things couples don't say that hurt their feelings?" Let's take a look. These words can invisibly hurt the feelings between you, so if they are present, they should be corrected or if not, they should be encouraged.
1. You just take care of your children at home and don’t have to do anything. Why complain about being tired!
The weakness of human nature is to take other people's efforts for granted, deny other people's hard work, and not know how to respect each other. The other person just longs to hear the comforting words "Thank you for your hard work."
2. Look at who in other people’s families is much better than you
Everyone is unique, don’t deny your significant other because of your own dissatisfaction, learn to encourage and Comfort the other person and don't make both parties dislike each other with a picky and comparative mentality.
3. Let me just tell you, just do what you are told not to do.
The other party may have tried hard and tried their best to do what the other party did. It is really tasteless to throw cold water on it at this time. , making the other party instantly feel chilled and have no motivation. Don’t blame the other party in marriage!
4. It’s your fault that this family is like this
Marriage is the relationship between two people and needs to be run by two people. , - Be sure not to belittle one party. The worst thing is to embarrass the other party in public. Repeated belittling will make the other party break down.
5. How big of a deal is this for you?
There are actually a lot of trivial things after marriage. You must learn to listen to the other person’s voice, provide comfort and support in a timely manner, and make the other person feel I am not facing it alone.
6. I work so hard, can you understand me!
Don’t think that your family is troublesome. Put yourself in someone else's shoes and it's more important to adjust your mentality. Don't selfishly feel that you have the hardest time.
7. What kind of rituals should we pay attention to when we are already an old couple?
Marriage needs freshness and passion. Don’t underestimate the sense of ritual. The occasional sense of ritual can make the woman feel your love. The development of marriage will be more favorable.
8. We are already an old couple, how can we still say I love you?
Don’t be stingy in expressing your feelings after marriage. Say I love you more and hug each other more. I miss you... You can't hide your love for someone. Express it more so that the other person can deeply feel your love.
9. What you say is what it is, I don’t want to argue with you
Begin to treat the other person indifferently and ignore the other person’s mood swings. Long-term cold treatment will consume the relationship until it ends. Learn to communicate and adjust in a timely manner.
10. Divorce is divorced, who is afraid of whom?
Don’t talk about divorce! At any time, be careful not to turn divorce into a threat. Over time,The matter of leaving each other in your heart will become weightless after a long time!
Don’t mention the above 10 points! Marriage is the accumulation of trivial things every day. Whether it is happiness or misfortune, more is the matter. It depends on both parties to operate. There is no secret to a good marriage, only: I love you, I really love you, and I want to be with you every moment.
