Couples in love are very happy, no matter it is the "ignorance period", "vanity period", "ignorance period", "desire period" or "maturity period" in love; people in love always It is easy to feel what happiness is. However, the maintenance of a relationship requires the joint efforts of two people. If these three things happen in a relationship, it is recommended that the couple must resolve them in time, otherwise it will easily lead to " "I don't feel anything", or even break up!
1. Not caring enough about your girlfriend
Many girls are like this I hope that my boyfriend can always care, care and take care of them, but in most cases this kind of behavior often occurs during the love period. After the love period, many boys' enthusiasm for such things will gradually fade away. However, during this period Girls are often the easiest to be shaken. They start to have wild thoughts and think that their boyfriends don't love them, and even suspect that there is a third party... and a series of wild things.
Therefore, when you are in love, you must pay attention to your girlfriend's mood in time and share each other's living conditions. Otherwise, the girl will feel that you don't love her enough, and even pretend to threaten you to break up.
2. Suspicion of the other party
From acquaintance to romantic relationship is the process of establishing trust and deep feelings. , if you have become lovers and you still suspect each other and let the other person feel your suspicion, then this will undoubtedly destroy the relationship between both parties. For example, some people always feel that the other person is still in contact with their ex and always ask to check Behaviors such as the other party’s mobile phone.
Most of the time, many suspicions between partners are groundless. Some are due to their suspicious personalities, some are due to their distrust of the other party, and some are due to their own lack of confidence... No matter what, a relationship full of suspicion will make people jealous. Both parties feel bound and uneasy, which destroys the "comfort" in the relationship and makes people want to escape and break up.
Therefore, if there is any problem in the relationship, bring it up directly to discuss and solve it, instead of doubting the other party.
3. Separated for too long
Each coin have two sides. Things have two sides. Distance can produce beauty, and distance can also produce estrangement. If the separation time is too long, the intersection of two people's lives will become smaller and smaller, and the topics will become less and less. This is why long-distance relationships always One of the important reasons why it doesn’t last long.
Therefore, two people in love should maintain constant contact. No matter how pure the love is, if it is not maintained, it will wither day by day. If it is an unavoidable long-distance relationship, Xiaoyu has the following suggestions for love: establish a common goal; keep in touch every day; learn time management, don’tLet loneliness take advantage of you; never be in a cold war; never stay in conflict; learn to control your disgust; always praise the other person.
Marquez once said in "Love in the Time of Cholera" that the crux of social life is learning to control timidity, and the crux of married life is learning to control disgust. I believe that the same applies to changing from married life to love life. Only when you learn to cherish love will you experience more joy!
