Girlfriends and besties are one of the most important people in our lives, but sometimes they quarrel over trivial matters. What should you do when you face this situation? Is it to comfort or to help complain? Let’s discuss it below.
1. Listen to what two people have to say first
When your girlfriend and best friend quarrel, be a bystander The first thing to do is to listen patiently to what the two people have to say. Don't take sides easily, let alone express your own opinions at will. Only after understanding the thoughts of two people can we handle this matter better.
2. Give appropriate comfort
After listening to two people's stories, if one of them is found to be aggrieved or sad, then you can give appropriate comfort. You can encourage them with warm words and let them feel your support and care. But be careful not to be overly comforting, as this may cause resentment.
3. Don’t participate in complaints
Although complaints are a way to relieve stress, you must not participate in complaints when your girlfriend and best friend are quarreling. Because this will only exacerbate the conflict and may make one of the parties feel isolated and lost. So, in this case, it’s better to stay neutral.
4. Help them communicate
If both people are willing to make peace, then you can help them communicate. You can put forward some suggestions or methods to help them find common ground and try to resolve differences. But be careful not to forcefully interfere with their decisions, after all, this is a problem between them.
It is not a big deal when a girlfriend and a best friend quarrel. As long as we adopt the correct attitude and method to deal with it, we can resolve the conflict well. Whether it is to comfort or help complain, you need to choose the appropriate method according to the specific situation. The most important thing is to remain neutral and respect their decision.
