I found that many couples broke up as soon as they were in love, as if they were under a curse. As the parties involved, they also said that they really wanted to have a long-term relationship, so how can they make the relationship last? In fact, in our daily relationship, some details determine whether you can last long! Let's take a look today.
Take myself as an example. In fact, I don’t agree with the way two people get along with each other by joking and hurting each other, because Very disrespectful.
We often tend to ignore the issues of politeness and respect as soon as we enter a stable relationship, completely giving up on self-restraint, and giving away our bad temper to the other party. Although these are small details, once a conflict occurs , these small details will be infinitely magnified.
I have an ex who often likes to hurt me and hit me when he jokes. I don’t think so at ordinary times. Anyway, the damage is taken back. If you make too many jokes, it is easy to overturn and cause conflicts. When it comes to conflicts, those who have said before The mutually destructive jokes were like needles piercing my heart. These jokes are made too often, and the feelings are worn away.
Second point, in my opinion, when two people get along, there should be interactions. Whether it is emotional or material, it cannot be just one-sided contribution.
This is also a basic rule of interpersonal communication. It cannot be ignored just because of the special relationship between two people. It can easily cause problems.
For example, 520 is coming soon. Preparing gifts is not a one-sided matter. Both boys and girls want to receive them. The gift is carefully prepared by the other party, so choose a favorite gift for your girlfriend and give it to her. She will definitely not vaguely say that she forgot to prepare a gift for you. This kind of interaction will make the relationship between two people better and better.
Finally, be true to yourself in relationships.
It doesn’t mean that you put all your shortcomings in front of her and ask her to accept it forcefully. I don’t think anyone can accept it. It means that you can truthfully express what you think in the relationship and do what you want. To get along with each other sincerely, and at the same time to maintain an independent side in the relationship, each other has a better mentality to manage the relationship.
There are not so many natural matches in relationships. It is more about constantly exploring and finding the most suitable way between two people. Do you still worry that your relationship will not last long?
