Many people say they don’t believe in love at first sight, but more in love that lasts over time. But it’s impossible to say for sure when it comes to relationships. No one knows what the final outcome will be, but it seems more reliable to be in love over time. From the perspective of both sexes, let’s analyze who is more likely to fall in love over time, men and women? Can feelings last for a long time? Do you believe that love lasts for a long time?
Who is more likely to fall in love over time, a man or a woman?
Some people say that "falling in love over time" is a false proposition in itself. Why do you say that? Because if a man and a woman don't have feelings for each other the first few times they meet, there's a high probability that they won't have feelings for each other in the future.
1. Women are more likely to fall in love over time
Many people say that women fall in love over time, but not in love over time. Love, but a sense of dependence. According to my observation, it seems that girls are naturally more keen on "dependence" than boys.
Think about it carefully. Is it more likely that girls like to say "whatever" when two people are together? Are more girls talking about "security" every day? When choosing a mate, are girls more likely to like Mu Qiang? Most girls still long for a man who is strong enough and reliable enough to take them forward.
It’s like looking for a high-quality uncle, not only because he is handsome and rich, but also because he has a sense of admiration and security generated by his experience.
It’s just that many girls haven’t met a boy who can give their whole body and mind to them.
2. Men are not easy to fall in love for a long time
But boys are different. When I fell down as a child, I was not allowed to cry. When I grew up, I had to be raised poor and trained. If you dare to have the idea of ??"depending on women" as an adult, you will be labeled as a soft-boiler. Everyone talks about "working hard to make money and marrying a wife", but have you ever heard of "working hard to make money and marrying a wife"?
Men are all loners and do not need to go back-to-back with the opposite sex to keep warm. Naturally, there will be no sense of dependence that lasts for a long time.
In the early stages of a relationship between a man and a woman, it is important to have feelings. Once a boy feels something, it makes a girl feel very capable and reliable. It is easy for girls to develop a sense of dependence. They are obedient to boys' arrangements on what to eat, where to play, and what to do.
But once a boy makes a girl feel unreliable, he appears to be more capable and reliable than his boyfriend. There is a high probability that she will feel more and more that her boyfriend is a weakling, and she will start to shout and drink, and then prepare to find a new strong man. The natural selection of society also eliminates those men who are prone to becoming dependent over time.
To sum up: Whether it is a man or a woman, two people will fall in love after being in contact for a long time, but men may be more likely to give in because they are overly relied on and asked for.The intensity of capturing emotions is too great.
