What kind of man would be considered boring? A sultry man generally refers to a man who looks cold in appearance, not approachable to women, and rarely talks to others. When someone jokes with him, he just smiles lightly. But as long as he is in front of familiar people, he will say some inappropriate things, act very arrogant, and he is also quite good at making jokes. What it boils down to is that he looks cool and cool in ordinary times, but he is coquettish in private. Is it a good thing or a bad thing for a man to be sullen?
1. Different situations of Mensao
In fact, Mensao is not good or bad. It mainly depends on how you define Mensao.
If a man is usually calm and silent, but actually very thoughtful, but does not express his thoughts easily, he will become very popular after getting along with him for a long time.
But if you usually don’t talk, are introverted, want to be extroverted but end up being neither fish nor fowl, and want to pretend to be serious and only make people look vulgar, then naturally this kind of boring person will not be welcomed.
The first type of boredom is actually very good. The key is that some boys think they are the first type, but they are actually the second type. So how to solve this problem?
Let’s first look at a situation: a sultry man will actually behave like a gentleman when facing a woman, but if the woman hints that he can go further many times, the sultry man may Acting too much, and then the woman puts on the attitude of rejecting and making fun of the sultry man.
For example, if two people are lovers, the sultry man will give him a hug, and the woman will tease him, but if the man really shows his sultry side, the woman will call him a pervert. So the man was scared and confessed obediently. So do women like men to be coquettish or do they not like men to be coquettish?
In this case, it actually depends on what kind of actions or words you make when you are depressed. If your usual language is sanctimonious, your usual physical contact will also appear sanctimonious. Once you feel that a woman is hinting, you will physically and involuntarily want to eat tofu, but you will be discovered and stopped by the woman. This is a proper rhythm for being played by a woman!
2. How to change a boring man
So how should a boring man change? Here are two methods to share with you:
1. From now on, restrain your behavior. Even if the girl takes off her clothes in front of you, you can easily put your hands in your pockets and look at her. Men must have self-control! And this also gave her a full sense of security. Is eating tofu really that good? It's nothing more than adding a little fantasy to you. This is also your chance to conquer your own desires. If one day you can practice not touching a woman at any time unless it's foreplay, you'll be awesome. This does not mean indifference. Without physical contact, you can still be very intimate and considerate.
2. Next, tear off the sanctimoniousness of your language expression. tell her youLove her so much and miss her so much. She was so sexy and you missed her so much. And be brave enough to confront her response. Every woman knows what's going on in your heart, and it's useless for you to act.
The above is not all the ways for men to pursue girls, nor is it the only correct behavior pattern. It's even a little "overcorrected", which may not be liked by all women, but it is something that boring men urgently need to change.
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